If your child is gifted in technology, or managed to create a building in construction and creativity games like Minecraft, or can draw on the Internet applications, support them. Praise him. If necessary, show your family or your friends their work. Tell her how proud you are on the positive achievement of the them on the internet. Your support will spur enthusiasm to continue to do positive things in the virtual world and the real world.
2. Follow their social media
One effective way that children's online activity monitored is by following their social media. Whether it's Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or whatever. From here you can see how he was "hanging out" in cyberspace. sometimes, you may also like to provide comments on your child account. But do not too often, because its gonna make your child and their friends become uncomfortable. And in the end, you're actually can be blocked from friendship.
3. Play Game Together
today with the times you used to be different. Today's gaming consoles vary, and there is no harm child's play game sometimes. But of course you have to make limitation of play time, for example they can play only at the weekend or holiday. duration to play game should not be too long.
Well, so you can control the games that your children can play while creating a warm and pleasant atmosphere, try playing with the kids. Playing well with parents or family for the child psychologically. Imagine the excitement that occurs when the parent-child play the game together. There was laughter, shouts, the spirit, and certainly strengthen your relationship and your kids.
4. Brainstorm. Give notion that the Son is always be honest to Whatever It Did on the Internet
It is very important for you to do: ask for the child always truthful to whatever they do on the Internet. You probably already working hard to monitor online activity of your kids. But you are not a robot that can stand by 24/7. Maybe you are using the help of parental monitoring apps or other programs that will prevent your child from accessing sites that do not deserve to them, but its just a tool, may not be fully protected, isn’it?
So, the best way is to discuss. Tell your kids that you respect the privacy and freedom of surfing in cyberspace, but also convey that many dangers lurk there. Many people abuse the internet so that we have to protect ourselves. Ask him to always be open, honest to anything he does on the Internet, began its activity in social media, Youtube channel what he is visiting today, and so forth. Use language as gently as possible and easy to understand the child so that your kids feels comfortable and not feel being spied by you.
Believe me, good communication will foster confidence to your child.
5. Try to Become Friends for your Kids
Try not to say that technology is bad for children. because you also use and get benefit from these technologies, right? You also know that the real problem is not on the gadgets, but those who use it. If we are wise take advantage of advances in technology, we would be fine and technologies will positively impact our lives.
Well, things like this you should talk with your kids. Position yourself as a friend. That you really understand your child, that the technology is very helpful and positive if we use them wisely.
